That look your husband gives you the day AFTER your Anniversary….

Now – I know there are plenty of women whose memories resemble that thing we drain noodles with – but its far more common, and perhaps slightly funnier, to blame men for all the missed birthdays and anniversaries that we endure with a pasty smile.

So when I heard about SendOutCards – I thought what an easy way for anyone to make sure their friends and family receive cards on time – no more belated birthday jokes!

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No shame in sending ourselves cards!

Truth be told – Im not much of a card person for friends & family – but when I think about my clients, sending them a card on their Anniversary, the 1st birthday of their child, or another important date in their lives – SendOutCards sounds like the perfect choice.

I spoke with Nadia Salvino of SendOutCards and she explained how you can schedule the cards in advance and even include gift cards! WOW! Instead of having to remember to find a card, buy a card, write a card, mail a card – every other week – I can spend an hour and schedule all my cards in advance knowing full well that my cards will be mailed on-time with a Canadian PostMark!

But before I try anything for my clients – I like to try it out myself – so I sent myself a birthday card (hey after all my birthday is coming up soon and Im sure the only cards I will get will have dried macaroni glued on them).

In a couple days – I found an exciting letter in the mail. The writing was so neat and clear – the stamp perfectly aligned, the return address was from me and not some generic PO Box or Corporate Address. It was like I had mailed the card myself – the old fashion way.

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Personal Messages, Photos, Scheduler, Mailing Addresses - Need I say more!

I choose a cute sheep – I love sheep – love scottish sheep – love kiwi sheep – ive even got a shepherd for a dog just in case one day I get a sheep. Inside the card I had written myself a message in a simple font I liked. I added a photo of my hubby, kids, and dog and signed off with a personal message that has alot of meaning to me.

To continue to play on the sheep theme – I included a photo from a trip to New Zealand we did when the kids were young. We had alot of pit stops along the drive (again, young children) and we only came across a road full of sheep once on that trip – but we were too busy with yet another pit stop to be actually delayed.

On the reverse of the card – are the addresses, SendOutCard info, and a reminder that the paper is recycled! I saved gas buying this card and Ive saved a tree as well!

SendOutCards will be something Im going to try for my clients – but I know lots of folks who do make a special trip up to the card store for friends & family; this option now lets them do that shopping 24×7, easily add mailing addresses, schedule the cards, and best of all – add photos without having to BUY photos as well!

Now – Hubby might never forget our Anniversary; of course this wont help him find his socks, the car keys, or the healthy food choices in the fridge veggie drawer!

 

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The X-Files leaves its Mark

When the kids were small, we went through a rash of wee pets – flies, spiders, stick-bugs – and then we upgraded to creatures that actually relied on us for survival. This generated a level of attachment that required naming of the pet.

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Bits and Bites

Bunny rabbits, ducks, mice, rats, fish, hamsters – these pets fill our lives and the lives of our children. If we have the opportunity – something larger (“longer living”) will come into our homes & our hearts. But each one – no matter how long its stay with us – leaves its mark.

If youve met a pet – a sure fire why to know the age of its human sisters & brothers -  is to ask the pet’s name. Pets belonging to children under the age of about 6 are named for their colour (Sunshine, Tany, Mink) or some other endearing feature or trait (Nibbles, Cutie, Cheddar).  Slightly older children (generally boys 8-12) will have plenty of suggestions that their parents wisely do not employ (naming your dog “Everyone” will generate lots of giggles but its not effective and rather embarrassing “Everyone lets go pee”).

By the time the kids are in their teens – they will have attached themselves to TV shows, video games, books, sports and other celebrity role models and as such – their name choices reflect their interests at the time of the pet aquisition. So when I met Christine – I had no doubt that someone in her family was a fan of the X-Files TV show popular in the 90′s.

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Moments in Time - Scully Pet Photos

15 years ago – Christine’s family got a pet cat – and whilst Christine & her brother bandied about names – “Scully” stuck. There are whole generations of people that will never know why her cat was named Scully, understand the reference to the show & the hours of anticipation viewers would spend between episodes, or the marketing & spin-offs that followed and was created in TV land.

Naming our pet (even our children!) is a reflection of our time, our interests, our sensibilities and its as much a part of their memory as the memories themselves. So with Scully’s limbs getting more sensitive and time taking its toll – I went to Christine’s condo to capture their memories.

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Cats View

Whilst I always get that 5×7 framed photo smile – I think more importantly – it’s documenting the little movements, the touches, the visual smells, the private moments between a human and their pet. The way they embed themselves into our lives and our lives change because of them – the routines and rituals – these moments. The stuff we accumulate for them: the litter box that is always in the way in the bathroom, the food bowl that waits for us, the toys we trip over – these things.

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If I was a fly

These are the things that remain after our pets have left us behind – these are the things we eventually pack away or give away – but like photographs – if we touch them – we can relive those days – that part of our life that has come and gone and will never be the same again.

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Nothing Exists except within our own Memories

Scully has touched her family’s life and now – having shared a private moment with them – has touched mine as well.

 

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